Mom and Dad.. maybe this will give you some clarification about me :)

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/22/magazine/22Adulthood-t.html?src=me&ref=general

If you have time read it- It's a debate on whether are 20's are a quest for exploration, for something more or just another excuse for us to forestall responsibilities and commitment :)

But no matter what... it's all up to opinions.. so just live your life don't let the world tell you we have to do things according to a certain time line. Just always remember who you are doing things for.